The subject title seems ironic when you will be able to read my entire post...
Ah.. here is another day where everthing was suppose to go just like it was suppose to be then all of a sudden, Mother Nature worked her way and decided to change your daily-routinal-boring life. I ain't talking about any major dilemma or life risking crisis here, it is just another day of finding friends through the use of cellphones gone bad.
Ever tried having "textmates", you know, you text someone, someone texts you, you talk about anything so that eventually you'll become friends, lovers, enemies or nothing at all. Well, it is very famous here and everyone is in search for their soulmates. They like to meet people from different places, share stories and end up being friends. I was also able to experience this kind of "networking", finding friends and partners through text, but, it did not went nicely. Actually, I did not like the idea of not being able to see the person whom your talking to. What's more weird is that, others ending up getting involved, being boy-girlfriends and when they finally agrees to meet each other, which is called, "eyeball", they ended up breaking up or just disappearing because they don't like each other in person. Tough! Well, I tried it again and here is what happened.
I usually don't reply to text messages from strangers, but since, this is another boring day, a certain beep from my cell and a number that was unregistered from my phonebook came to my attention. It all started with "hi's and hello's", "where did you get my number" and the sort. Then it all went bad. I don't really know if it was my frankness, honesty and straightforward manner that got the other person on the other line mad, but well, it sure did. I was trying a friendly, conversant manner way of texting him (yeah, the texter said he was a guy), replying to every message he sends and then he went mad. He started accusing me of judging him before even knowing him! The culprit?
Exhibit A: The text message that started it all!
"b4 u startd askng me questns, let me ask u 1st, r u txtng me bcoz u wnted 2 gain a frend? or do u wnt somthing else? bcoz hnestly, im not available..." (Before you started asking me questions, let me ask you first, are you texting me because you wanted to gain a friend? or do you want something else? because honestly, im not available..") sender: ME
I don't really know how he read my text but it surely made him reply saying, "How dare you!" (????) yeah, there are lots of question mark in my head and I don't like it when I'm confused. I kept an openmind but he started going ballistic! Still, I kept my cool and tried to straighten things out with him and got a, "You're rude and very judgemental," reply.. hello?
Exhibit B: The text message that made it worst!
"luk mr., ur d 1 hu txtd me n d 1st place! i ws jus askng f u wnted me 2 b ur frend or not.. bt den u strted accusing me of being judgmental.." (look mister, you're the one who texted me in the first place! I was just asking if you wanted me to be your friend or not.. but then you started accusing me or being judgemental.." sender: ME
From then on, he has never replied politely. Well damn him! He surely created my day! He eventually turned my boring life into something exciting! I am not mad at him, just baffled... I wonder if he will text me back again???